For parents | OurChildrens

A normal week, made calmer

The tools are small, but they land where arguments usually start.

Monday

You swap Saturday’s handover. You ask in the calendar, the other parent taps Yes, and it is written down.

Wednesday

You ring the children from the app. The call is logged for you, with the length and who called. If you both agree beforehand, it is recorded.

Friday

Handover. You add a private check-in with a note about the day, so nothing is left to memory.

Sunday

School shoes. You log the cost, attach the receipt and the balance updates by itself.

Any time

You write a message while you are annoyed. The wording helper offers a calmer version. You choose which to send.

When it matters

Your solicitor needs the facts. You print or share the record in a couple of taps, or add them to your case.

What each plan includes

Every plan is complete on its own. Bigger plans add to it.

Essential £4.99/mo

A complete co-parenting toolkit: messages, calendar, expenses, voice calls, children's profiles, journal and vault.

Messages that are dated, can never be edited or deleted, and show when they were read
Shared calendar for handovers, contact days and holidays, where changes need the other parent's Yes or No
Shared expenses with an agreed split, categories and a running balance
Information bank for medical, school, insurance and document details
Voice calls to the other parent, inside the app, with every call logged
Profiles for each child: school, doctor, allergies, routines
Private handover check-ins: a dated note of every arrival and departure
Private journal that never appears in the shared record
Document vault, 100 MB
Printable record of the whole case, and your solicitor or mediator added free
UK separation guide and local help, written in plain English

Plus £7.99/mo

Everything in Essential, plus face-to-face video calls, recorded calls, receipts and the wording helper.

Video calls to the other parent, inside the app
Call recording (audio) with both parents' consent, stored safely for you both
Wording helper that checks the tone of a message before you send it
Weekly pattern view showing where the children sleep each night
Receipts attached to expenses, so every cost is backed up
Record for any date range, ready to print or send to your solicitor
Document vault, 500 MB, and 500 MB for call recordings

Complete £12.99/mo

Everything in Plus, with video recording, shared calendar links, 2 GB storage and priority support.

Video calls recorded as well as voice, with both parents' consent
Calendar link you can share with grandparents, schools and clubs
Document vault, 2 GB, and 2 GB for call recordings
Priority support: your questions are answered first

Compare and choose

Getting started takes minutes

Choose a plan and pay

Pick Essential, Plus or Complete. Payment is by card through Stripe, and you can cancel any time.

Set up your login

Choose a password. We email you a six-digit code each time you sign in, so a stolen password alone is not enough.

Invite the other parent

Add them from the Co-parent tab. They set up their own login and plan. Then add your solicitor or mediator if you want to, free.

Good to know

Can the other parent see my private journal?

No. The journal, your check-in notes and your own settings are private to you. They never appear in the shared record.

Can messages be edited or deleted?

No. Messages are dated when sent and cannot be changed or removed afterwards, by either parent.

Does the app give legal advice?

No. OurChildren Ltd is not a law firm. We keep a clear record and point you to official guidance. For advice about your situation, speak to a solicitor or a mediator.

What if I do not feel safe?

Our safety page explains what the app can and cannot do, and where to get help. In an emergency call 999.

Everything a separated family needs to stay organised